
Just a question that I have been thinking about lately…
When I first decided to go to Spain, I was excited to finally study in a country where I would blend in. I was done with the touristy, foreigner look, and ready to actually immerse myself in another country. This would be a completely different experience from my time in China. In China, I was clearly an outsider, and this affected the way I was treated – not necessarily for worse, but just differently. People talked slower, and expected less. If I made a cultural blunder, or did something just straight up dumb, I could write it off as being a ’stupid American.’ The standards were pretty low.
But now, studying in a country where by all basic appearances, I fit in, things have changed. Now, walking down the street, or into a store, people expect me to act like, and speak like a Spaniard. I get asked directions on the street, and have people strike up conversations with me on the Metro. But as soon as I open my mouth, it is clear I am a foreigner. Although my Spanish is fairly good, I have a pretty interesting Chinese-Italian-German-American accent going for me, that stands out right away. And then there’s the slang language, the words that we never actually learned in school, but end up being essential for living and speaking in Spain. Learning that is definitely on my to-do list.
And so, the question is, is it better to blend in, or stand out? In China, I sort of enjoyed the apparent excuse of being an outsider. Here, when I make mistakes, instead of people writing it off as a foreign faux-paus, it’s just assumed I’m actually that dumb. Although there are perks to fitting in. I am no longer an easy target for pick-pocketing, and no longer hear comments about ‘Waiguoren’ (foreigner, in Chinese). I can explore the city without looking too much like a tourist, and things seem to come a bit easier now. For now I think I like being one of the Europeans. It’s a good life!






